Man, right now is hard. You cannot believe what happened. How is it over? You thought this would last forever.. But it is over. Lift up your head. This isn’t the end for you. It is actually the beginning. The heart break right now seems unbearable. You feel like you will never get over this. You will never love again. Let me assure you.. That you will. 

I have been there. Fell for the wrong guy. Lost my best friend over it. It wasn’t worth it. I spent too much time crying over someone that couldn’t care less. Looking back now.. I wish someone would have told me what I am about to tell you.


You ARE enough. Whatever lies they told you.. Do NOT believe them. God created you. And you are beautifully and wonderfully made. Just because someone else cannot see your worth doesn’t mean it isn’t there.

Do not let anyone pressure you into anything. I was pressured into doing things that I knew were wrong. I just wanted someone to love me. I was trying to fill void that only JESUS could fill. And it did way more damage then I ever thought it would. It IS NOT WORTH IT. Believe me. Good things come to those who wait.

Your heart will heal. I spent so many nights crying. I would listen to sad love songs. I would look back at text messages trying to figure out where it went wrong. That DID NOT help. I had to submit to Jesus. He heals the brokenhearted. And he will heal yours. Don’t worry. It may seem impossible right now but you will look back at this moment in your life and thank God for that relationship ending. I know I did. 

There are better things ahead. I could not imagine what my life would like right now if I didn’t let it go. And it took me YEARS. But I did it. And you can too. I ended up meeting the man of my dreams. He was everything I ever wanted.. and MORE. God has something special in store for you darling. Be patient. It is worth the wait. 

YOU are WORTH the wait. 


Bianca Marie



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